Meditation Myths: You Don’t Need More Time — And You Don’t Need an Empty Mind
Meditation Myths #1 & #2
Two of the biggest misconceptions that keep people from starting
A few weeks ago, I shared a simple 5-minute reset meditation.
Since the launch of Living Is Easy With Eyes Closed, I’ve been invited onto a few podcasts… and there’s one question that keeps coming up:
“What are the biggest myths about meditation?”
There are quite a few.
But I thought it might be fun to explore them here, slowly and simply, one or two at a time.
Let’s start with two that stop people before they even begin.
Myth #1: “You have to meditate for a long time for it to count.”
I hear this one all the time.
Somewhere along the way, meditation became something we imagine doing for
30 minutes…
an hour…
in complete silence…
with nothing else pulling at us.
And for most people, that’s exactly where it ends… at the imagining.
Because life doesn’t look like that.
But here’s what I’ve found, both personally and through everything I’ve learned:
Short, consistent practice changes far more than occasional long sits.
Five minutes can shift your entire state.
Not dramatically.
Not all at once.
But gently… and reliably.
When you sit for even a few minutes each day, something begins to build.
A rhythm.
Your body starts to recognize it.
Your breath begins to soften a little sooner.
Your mind doesn’t fight it quite as much.
And over time, that calm doesn’t stay on the cushion.
It follows you.
Into conversations.
Into stressful moments.
Into the pause before you react.
You begin to notice your thoughts more clearly, especially the ones that loop or pull you off center.
And that awareness?
That’s where choice lives.
That’s where things start to change.
Longer meditations absolutely have their place.
They can open the door to deeper reflection… creativity… even spiritual exploration.
But they’re not the entry point for most people.
A simple way to think about it:
Short sits support daily well-being.
Longer sits deepen inner exploration.
Both matter.
But five minutes is enough to begin.
Myth #2: “You have to clear your mind.”
This one might be the biggest myth of all.
And honestly, it kept me from meditating for a long time.
Because I thought,
“If the goal is no thoughts… I’m already failing.”
But meditation isn’t about having no thoughts.
It’s about noticing them.
Thoughts will come.
They’ll wander, repeat, distract, interrupt…
sometimes all within a few seconds.
That’s not failure.
That’s just the mind doing what the mind does.
What changes with meditation is your relationship to those thoughts.
Instead of getting pulled into every story, you begin to see them.
You might notice:
planning
worrying
remembering
… or yes, even itchy nose
And then—without judgment—you gently come back.
Back to your breath.
Back to a sound.
Back to whatever you’ve chosen as your anchor.
That moment of noticing?
That’s the practice.
Not perfection.
Not silence.
Not a perfectly clear mind.
Just noticing… and returning.
Over and over again.
Meditation isn’t about escaping life.
It’s about having something to return to
when life gets loud.
Next week, I’ll share two more common meditation myths.
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